Sunday, October 12, 2014

The New Normal?

Once again, a Facebook post has struck my blog inspiration muse. One of my friends posted something that made me do a double take.

There is an ad for the internet channel Pornhub in Times Square.

Not just a small ad that is hidden among others, but a large, obvious "hey look at me" billboard ad on the side of a building. Take a look:

  
Now I'm not judging people for what they do in there own homes; that's their own business and frankly I'd rather not know; however, I really don't want to be on a trip to New York, have my boys (ages 8, 7, 4, 2, and almost newborn) see this ad and ask what it means. Awkward.

Besides that, this is all to similar to the ads put out by cigarette companies to normalize smoking, because what is normal = money in the bank. They put the ads out there to make smoking look cool, normal, and there is no harm doing it (kinda like the peer pressure lessons in elementary school, "Come on, everyone's doin' it"). Try telling "there is no harm in smoking" to the people (and their loved ones) that died of lung cancer and everything else that can and is caused by smoking. Those ads now have to have warnings on them saying they cause cancer and other health problems, so you do so at your own risk and the companies can't be sued (anymore). Similarly, try telling "there is no harm in porn" to those people who are addicted to it and families that are now broken because of its influence. Will these ads for porn soon come with similar ads?

"WARNING: Watching porn may lead to addictive behavior, causing heartbreak of your loved ones, divorce if married, and may lead to low self esteem, a skewed vision of the opposite sex, and Sexual Dysfunction." 

(Yes, porn-induced sexual dysfunction is a thing. Google/Bing it. Welcome to the times in which we live.)

Pornhub should have stayed in the closet. Now that they're out and advertising their services, they could hypothetically get sued by someone who gets addicted to porn, which addiction causes a divorce, and said addict will then use the money they get from winning the headlining trial (or out of court settlement) to finance their alimony and child support payments. 

My final point is that masturbation (yes I wrote it, stop giggling and blushing and read on) can not and will not take the place of true love experienced between a husband and wife; and eventually father, mother, and children. For that kind of love, there is no substitute. "Search your feelings! You know this to be true!"

For more information on the harmful affects of pornography, check out the site and blog of the "Fight the New Drug" cause.

Thanks for reading, and may the Force be with you all.


Religious = Brainwashed?



For my first post (and actually the topic that inspired me to start this thing in the first place), I would like to address the idea which a couple of my friends on Facebook posted, that in general “people 
who are religious and believe in a god are brainwashed, thus are not able to think for themselves”.

Really?

That is probably about as close-minded an idea and faulty logic as I’ve ever heard.

Just because people are religious, doesn’t mean they are close-minded and can’t accept anything else as truth. Granted, there are zealots out there, but that’s the case on all sides of all viewpoints. You can tell who the zealots are because they’re the ones who the media focuses in on. Those of us who are more towards the middle on issues don’t get attention because we are the status quo, and the status quo isn’t newsworthy unless there is nothing better going on. Also, we are typically the ones who facepalm when the zealots make it on the news, since we know they don’t represent the majority or the standard, but are treated as such.

After I read the posts of my friends which implied religious people (specifically members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, which hereafter in this and subsequent posts will be known as “The Church”; that is much simpler to type) are brainwashed, I was troubled by this. I had no idea this is how they felt, and I thought I knew these people pretty well. They are my friends, after all; some I’ve known since high school. But something about their statements was familiar to me.

Now just as a heads up, I will be quoting scriptures in these blogs from time to time. This is done to help illustrate points that I am trying to make. The scriptures I will be primarily quoting from are the King James Version of the Bible and the Book of Mormon.

In the Book of Mormon, there is a man named Alma. Alma was a prophet among the followers of Jesus Christ, who believed in His coming before He was born. One day, a man named Korihor came to the Christians and attempted to teach the people the following:

“O ye that are bound down under a foolish and a vain hope, why do ye yoke yourselves with such foolish things? Why do ye look for a Christ? For no man can know of anything which is to come. Behold, these things which ye call prophecies, which ye say are handed down by holy prophets, behold, they are foolish traditions of your fathers. How do ye know of their surety? Behold, ye cannot know of things which ye do not see; therefore ye cannot know that there shall be a Christ. Ye look forward and say that ye see a remission of your sins. But behold, it is the effect of a frenzied mind; and this derangement of your minds comes because of the traditions of your fathers, which lead you away into a belief of things which are not so. And many more such things did he say unto them, telling them that there could be no atonement made for the sins of men, but every man fared in this life according to the management of the creature; therefore every man prospered according to his genius, and that every man conquered according to his strength; and whatsoever a man did was no crime. (Alma 30:13-17)”

Seems to me like a lot of people in the world are saying this same thing lately, “How can you know? No one can know for sure of these things, therefore you’re nuts. You’re brainwashed, you don’t know any better. Open your mind.” A lot of people believe in this same style of thinking today, and Korihor was able to convince some of the Christians that he was right even back then.

However, Alma responded to Korihor with this:

“And then Alma said unto him: Believest thou that there is a God? And he (Korihor) answered, Nay. Now Alma said unto him: Will ye deny again that there is a God, and also deny the Christ? For behold, I say unto you, I know there is a God, and also that Christ shall come. And now what evidence have ye that there is no God, or that Christ cometh not? I say unto you that ye have none, save it be your word only. (Alma 30:37-40)”

After Alma says this, Korihor asks for a sign that God exists, so that he can be convinced. This is Alma’s answer:

“Thou hast had signs enough; will ye tempt your God? Will ye say, Show unto me a sign, when ye have the testimony of all these thy brethren, and also all the holy prophets? The scriptures are laid before thee, yea, and all things denote there is a God; yea, even the earth, and all things that are upon the face of it, yea, and its motion, yea, and also all the planets which move in their regular form do witness that there is a Supreme Creator. (Alma 30:44)”

My response to my friends is similar to Alma’s response to Korihor: there is a God. He is our Father in Heaven because he created us (Genesis 1:26-27). He sent us here to learn from our OWN choices to learn to become more like him so that when we die, we can return to live with him. However, because he gave us the freedom to choose, we have the ability to choose not to believe in him or know he exists. To illustrate, I can choose to not believe in the Law of Gravity. However, my belief doesn’t make the Law of Gravity any less true. Also, Isaac Newton had to believe the Law of Gravity existed before he could prove its existence (Look at that, Science and Religion in the same article, but that’s a blog for another time).

My point is that just because you don’t believe in God and/or Jesus Christ, doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Also, before the argument is used that Science proves God doesn’t exist, Alma mentioned that the earth’s orbit and all the planets and stars that exist and move prove that God exists. Sounds like Astronomy to me, which last I checked was a branch of Science. Benjamin Franklin, one of the Founding Fathers and acknowledged as a great scientist, believed in God (Check out his autobiography. He says he is a deist. Other sources also point out that he even considered himself a Christian, like “The Mosaic of Christian Belief: Twenty Centuries of Unity & Diversity”. Thomas Jefferson is included in that one. Google/Bing it). But again, it is your choice to believe or not. Just know that whatever your choice is, I will respect it and still consider you a friend, as the mark of a true friend is the ability to tolerate others for their differences. All I ask is that you respect my choice to believe and share about Heavenly Father, Jesus Christ, and their plan for us in return.

As a member of The Church, I know that I think for myself. I make my own choices. I have made the conscious choice to be a member of The Church and to follow its doctrine and teachings. My parents didn’t force me to go to church, I made (and still make) the choice to go. Was I expected to go to church with them? Yes. Did they expect me to be baptized at 8 years old (which is the practice of The Church)? Yup. Was I expected to serve a mission for The Church? Absolutely. But I can tell you that the choices I made to do those things were conscious choices on my part, because of my own choice to believe.

Greetings y’all!



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Welcome to my blog.

This is basically going to be an online journal where I can share my thoughts on current events and other such things. I feel that Facebook is improperly formatted to allow me to express my opinions on these things, as I tend to be long winded in my thoughts. Also, I want to keep my Facebook page primarily as a quick updater for things going on in my life.

As the title suggests, I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, commonly referred to as the Mormon church. For any of you that have known me personally, this may come a surprise to you,  or maybe not :) I hope that those of you who read this will come with open minds and if you feel the need to comment on entries, please do so. I only ask that you keep it civil, otherwise “I will break my foot off in your John Brown hind parts… and then you will run a mile” (Thank you, those of you who got the movie reference).

The only other bit of advice I have about keeping things civil is to remember this: this is the written word. It is monotone. There is no voice inflection, facial expression, or hand gestures to help express emotion. Don’t read more into posts and comments than there really is, and don’t take offense whether it is intended or not.

Thanks for reading and enjoy.

Moving

So my previous blog at blog.com is being dumb as it wont let me log in anymore (502 bad gateway error), thus I am moving to blogger. I'll be moving my previous posts from blog.com to blogger.com shortly and will have a new blog up in a bit, so stay tuned :)